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ho olo ffli r tin g.c o m .

D on 't sta re . "Y ou wan t to attra ct, not a ttack ," and ho ld tha t ga ze fo r
ab out t hree se co n ds.
D o not le t yo u e ye s ro a m all o ve r th e pers o n's bo dy. S top a t the
ne ck.
S m il e , it 's a univ e rs a l l an gua ge.

K eep yo ur ha nds to yo urs e lf .
K eep yo ur sh ou ld e rs out a nd tu rn e d sli g h tly to w ard the pers on . It
s a ys , "I'm fr ie n dly , a pp ro acha ble an d in te re ste d." S
nee rs , sta res

P eo ple a re a fr a id o f re je ction a nd won 't app ro ach yo u if t hey don 't ge t
t he p rop er sig n als , R ab in sa ys .
M oo re , w hose la te st stu dy in vo lv e s re je ctio n sig na ls by wom en , sa ys
t he y use a re p erto ir e of no n-v e rb al fa cia l e xp re ssio n s and ge stu re s to
d isc ou ra ge pote ntia l pa rtn ers .
T hey sn ee r an d sta re , put t he ir ha nd s in the ir pock ets an d tu rn th e ir
bo die s aw ay.
A no th e r stu dy by K. G ra m m er in 199 0 sh ow s th at clo se d postu re s
an d th e a vo ida nce o f eye co nta ct are u se d b y both se xe s to in dic a te a
l a ck of in te re st.
T ake th e in it ia tiv e ; oth er
pe ople are sh y, t oo .
Y our bo dy is s pe akin g e ve n
w he n you 'r e no t. B e aw are of
t he mess ag e you 'r e se nd in g .
T ou ch is a pow erfu l
c o mm unic a to r. U se it
s p arin gly .
T alk in g to o much mea ns
y o u'r e n ot lis te n in g.
S how in g in te re st in yo u r
pa rtn e r's ach ie ve m en ts is th e
u lt im ate tu rn -on .
B e ge ne ro u s wit h sin ce re
c o m plim en ts .

A ny pla ce can be a meeting
p la ce . M ake th e e nvir on men t
w ork fo r you .
F li r tin g is not a on e -s h ot
de al. T ry , t ry , t ry ag ain .