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d s. W hile a
n ic e id ea l, in re a l li f e , a lo t of w om en's s exu a l ne e d s are no t m et fu lly by th e ir
p art n e r, no matter ho w goo d and lo vin g a part n e r th e y ha ve . Fo r w om en wit h
p art n e rs , it is im port a nt t ha t t he y und ers ta nd th a t it is perfe c tly he a lt h y and
n o rm al fo r th e m to mastu rb ate , a nd th e y sh o uld d o so wit h o ut fe eli n g g uil t y . Fo r
m any, if no t m ost w om en, th e fre q ue nc y at w hic h th e y mastu rb a te sh o uld no t
c ha ng e whe n th e y go fro m bein g sin g le to ha vin g a se xu a l part n e r. So m e
w om en fin d th e y mastu rb ate more whe n th e y ha ve a pa rt n e r, as ha vin g a
p art n e r m ake s th e m fe el m ore se xu a l, and in c re a se s th e ir desir e fo r se x and
s e xu a l p le a su re .
T h e re are tim es in all re la tio nsh ip s w he n yo ur p art n e r is no t a va ila ble fo r se x w he n
y o u desir e it , eve n whe n th e y sle ep b esid e yo u. Coup le s fre q ue ntly ha ve
d if fe re nt le ve ls of se x driv e , a nd exp ecta tio ns re g a rd in g physic a l i ntim acy. Th is is
w hy wom en fre q ue ntly mastu rb ate se cre tiv e ly in th e sh o w er, or m astu rb a te
s il e ntly in th e e arly morn in g ho urs w hile th e ir slee pin g part n e r lie s besid e th e m .
M astu rb atin g whe n yo u ha ve a part n e r is no rm al a nd a wom an sh o uld no t fe e l
a sh a m ed fo r d oin g so , m ost w om en h ave pro b a bly done it a t so m e poin t in th e ir
r e la tio nsh ip . It is oft e n a ne ce ss it y . Fo rg oin g mastu rb atio n and se xu a l p le a su re
b ec a use yo u ha ve a part n e r does ha rm to yo u and yo ur re la tio nsh ip b ec a use
y o u will slo w ly beg in to bla m e th e m fo r yo ur se xu a l fru stra tio n. As