David DeAngelo - Double Your Dating - Sex Secrets | Page 3

that’s a GREAT question.
1. Touch her very very gently and slowly. Use the very tips of your
fingers. Run them over her arms, neck, shoulders, lips, hands, legs,
feet... everywhere. If you avoid her breasts, crotch, and ass, you’ll
even get her more turned on for later (Remember anticipation? It
will drive her crazy... “When is he going to touch my tits?”).
2. Kiss her sensually. Let the first kiss be very light... almost a brush.
Then wait (anticipation). Kiss her 100 times on the neck and
shoulders. Suck on her lips gently. Lick her just a tad on the neck,
shoulders, and lips. Think eating an ice-cream cone, then tone it
back a bit. Like you’re tasting her a little each time.
3. Feed her little bits of things that are sexy. Try strawberries,
chocolate, champagne. Also, go out and get yourself some of that
‘Kama Sutra Oil’ at the adult store. The flavored kind not only
tastes good, it HEATS UP if you put it on and breathe on it. Nice.
4. Smell her. Smell her neck and shoulders for about 5-10 minutes
STRAIGHT. No kissing. No licking. Just smelling for 5-10 minutes.
Gently run your nose and lips over her shoulders and neck smelling
her. Say “Mmmmm... you smell good. I’m just going to smell you
for awhile.” You’re going to love how she reacts to this.
5. Talk sexy to her. Men like to hear “I want it harder big boy”...
women like to hear “Your lips feel so soft and sexy. I love the way
your lower lip feels when I kiss it... And I could just kiss you for
hours... it feels so nice.” Women love to hear about the DETAILS,
remember?

6. Tell her stories, and describe what you’re going to do to her. If
she’s getting turned on, take a few minutes to whisper in her ear
exactly what you’re going to do to her. “You know what I’m going
to do next? First, I’m going to slowly and gently kiss your
shoulders... and then work my way up to your neck... smelling your
sexy perfume... mmm... you smell soooo good... then, I’m going to
kiss you deeply...” Get it? Also tell her what feels good in the same
detailed way. Use a soft, slow, deep tone of voice.
The Transition Into Sex (Also Known As ‘Foreplay’)
I have a lot of guys ask me things like “How to I make my move?” and
“How do I get her to actually have sex with me?”
My answer: Remember the old saying... “The hungry don’t get fed.”
I know that this sounds paradoxical, but you have to ACT LIKE YOU
DON’T NEED IT. You have to have an “I can take it or leave it” attitude at
the beginning. Later, after things are rolling, you can bang her brains out
like it's your last chance to have sex this lifetime (interestingly, if you set it
up correctly, she’ll love it if you do, too).
So to begin with, start then stop. Start then stop. Do something that’s
arousing, then cool it and do something else. Did someone say
“Anticipation”?
I thought so.
The way to get her to want to have sex is to create this anticipation
while at the same time stimulating her senses. Combine this with a casual
attitude of “I’m enjoying this, but I don’t NEED it” and you’re off to the
races.
But you have to keep it up. It might take you an extra 20 or 30
minutes of this teasing and whatnot, but if you’ll just be patient, my son,
you’ll reap the great rewards.
There are a few major signals:
1. She starts grinding her hips on you.
2. She starts taking your clothes off.
3. She starts taking her clothes off.
4. She says “I’m getting really turned on” or “I’m really getting hot.”

5. She grabs your crotch.
If you keep it up for long enough, one of these will usually happen.
that’s your cue that it’s time to take things to the next level.
When you get the signal, it’s time for you to act like a man and do
something (isn’t it a bitch being a guy sometimes?).
I recommend this sequence:
1. Run your hands over her breasts (through her clothes).
2. Run your hands over her ass (through her clothes).
3. Pull her shirt up just enough to expose her stomach a tiny bit, and
then start touching it very gently and slowly... also touch her back
where it’s exposed. Remember what I said about slow, gentle
touching.
4. Stop once in awhile. Create anticipation.
5. Next, take off her shirt. Don’t immediately go for the breasts! Don’t
do it! Gently touch every part of her that’s exposed (I’m assuming
that she still has her bra on). Kiss her shoulders... and her back.
Add generous portions of light slow touching and mini-tasting.
6. If the “I’m getting really hot” signals keep coming from her, now
touch and kiss her breasts gently through her bra. If this goes over
well, then take it off and kiss some more. Remember, slow,
gentle... and stop for anticipation breaks.
7. Next comes the pants. You may have to take shoes and/or socks