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all male environment. \
Women
also feel and do all these things with other women. These infinite permu\
tations and
the confusion that results from them cannot be accommodated by society, \
which
needs order in which to function. Order means ignoring varying shades of\
grey and
distinguishing only between black and white; it means putting labels on \
things. And
since society is never stronger than when it is united against a common \
evil,
labeling things also means defining society's outcasts.
Various attempts have been made this century to 'explain'
homosexuality, and even to 'cure' it. But the question is not really why\
some people
are homosexual, but why our society is heterosexual. People born into a \
homosexual society generally conform to the norm, just as do people born\
into a
heterosexual society. Most of us have a broad enough sexual response to \
allow us
to be conditioned comfortably to either mode of behavior. The people who\
feel less
comfortable with the status quo, and those who feel positive discomfort \
with it are in
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no way unnatural; rather, it is the restrictions that society places on \
them that should
be considered against nature.
One man in three has had some form of homosexual experience
resulting in orgasm, according to the Kinsey Report, published in 1948. \
Kinsey was
not saying that one man in three was homosexual; but he was tearing off \
the label
that branded sexuality between men as 'abnormal'. Kinsey pointed out tha\
t humans
were not alone among animals in engaging in same-sex activity: the assum\
ption
that animals had sex only when reproduction could be guaranteed was a ma\
n-made
one, designed to bolster the view that homosexuality was 'against nature\
'. Of
course, half a century has elapsed since the publication of the Kinsey R\
eport and
sexual mores have changed. However, Kinsey's findings still represent ex\
tremely
valuable research into this area of sexual behavior and the underlying t\
rends are still
relevant today.
Homosexual encounters between men usually begin in foreplay and
end in orgasm, but the pattern of lovemaking is much less rigid than the pattern of
lovemaking between men and women tends to be, and both partners almost a\
lways
reach orgasm. Many homosexual men consider sex with other men to be libe\
rating
because there are no rules: it does not involve pressure to perform or p\
ressure to
satisfy the other person, and mutual satisfaction is effortless because \
men
understand each other's bodies so well.
Men report that another advantage of sex without obligations is that they feel
they can come straight to the point; a sexual relationship often precede\
s a social
friendship, and not the other way around. Many men describe their sexual\
relations
with male partners as generally more honest and straightforward, both ph\
ysically
and emotionally, than their relationships with women.
Most homosexual men derive a great deal of physical and emotional
satisfaction from being penetrated. Hygiene should always be the first p\
riority in any
act of anal penetration, as disease is especially. easily transmitted in\
this way.
Always wear a condom. A condom on a finger inserted into the anus can ai\
d
lubrication
as well as protect against scratches - from fingernails and rough skin -
that could lead to infection. You should always wash thoroughly before a\
nd after
anal sex, and if you use a vibrator for penetration, make sure that this\
is washed
thoroughly too, in hot soapy water with a splash of antiseptic added.
Some women rebel against the narrowness of the status quo and become
lesbians for political reasons, feeling dissatisfied with a male dominat\
ed society,
others do so because they find men unsatisfactory as lovers or as partne\
rs on an
emotional level, and others because they are intensely emotionally invol\
ved with a
member of their own sex and wish to express their feelings through their\
sexuality.
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Sex aids and
aphrodisiacs
A variety of sex aids
or toys
are sold over-the-counter in
sex shops or by mail order through
magazines. These include Chinese balls (a
woman can wear them in her vagina where
they vibrate slightly as she moves about
during the day) and condoms with various
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protrusions on them, which are designed to
stimulate the clitoris during intercourse.
Other condoms are brightly colored and
flavored with fruit.
The vibrator is by far the most
popular sex toy. Shaped like a penis and
battery-ope rated, it can be used in love play
or for female masturbation. Some vibrators
have an ejaculation mechanism. Many sex
therapists advise the use of a vibrator for
women learning to